It is possible that truckers in a relationship are surprised when one of the two decides to end the marriage, alleging and wondering what happened, because their partner no longer wants them. But the reality is not like that, when a person is truly determined to end a relationship, they give previously indications that things are not going well.
But most men and women do not want to accept the reality that there is distance and things are not as before. In the case of truckers, due to the fact that their work takes them away from home and at the same time takes them away as a couple, this has a great influence if there is not good communication between both parties.
Due to the lack of day-to-day coexistence that could indicate that things are not going well. In this edition we want to encourage truck drivers to pay attention to their partners to detect if there are these signs in their relationships and address them in the most respectful way for both parties:
1- Attempt to change the couple in all aspects
Many people, to avoid being alone, decide to associate with people they want to change completely, be it the way they talk, walk, eat, work. It is as if they do not like absolutely anything in that person and they want to change it completely. They let them know through criticism, derogatory comments and demanding changes, whether physical or behavioral, so that they adapt to what they want.
2- The lack of tolerance
Whether during a conversation, discussion, important decision. If one of the parties is intolerant of opinions other than their own, it is very likely that the relationship will be very conflictive. If this is a type of behavior that worsens every day, the couple should seek professional help, before moving on to the final phase, which would be the separation.
3- Problems in sexual relations
Either the lack of sexual desire or the excess. All exaggerated behavior indicates that something is wrong. Sexual relations can be the thermometer of a healthy relationship as a couple. If there is no desire to be intimate with the couple, it is possible that something is happening and it will have to be discussed to try to solve it or at least understand what the problem is. The same happens when one of the two wants to have sex at all hours.
4- Pessimistic attitude
It occurs when the truckers or partners are convinced that their relationship has no future and that there are trust issues. This person begins to think of all kinds of possibilities of betrayal, which becomes obsessive behavior where jealousy, arguments, even the surveillance of the other become present and make that relationship impossible to deal with. It is very difficult for a relationship to survive such obsessive behavior.
5- Do not show affection for the couple
Even if it is a relationship of many years, the affection should not disappear. So, if one of them approaches the couple and this person avoids the psychical contact, when holding hands this person takes the hands away, if avoids kissing, caressing or any demonstration of affection when did it before, it is very possible that something is not going well. They will have to talk about it and try to find the root of the problem and decide if staying together is still an option.
If you cannot deal with these problems alone, it is best to seek professional help so that you can be guided to find happiness again.